tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post6436462781653167825..comments2023-12-27T22:27:56.989-08:00Comments on A Girl and Her Gun: Time Does Heal Some Woundsagirlandhergunhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-62782396927474462102023-08-21T22:14:50.048-07:002023-08-21T22:14:50.048-07:00Nice blogg you haveNice blogg you havedolcissimohttps://fabiolapretti.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-84720084101373173932012-06-25T03:32:47.527-07:002012-06-25T03:32:47.527-07:00They are tough little cookies!They are tough little cookies!agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-23632322384745904022012-06-25T03:30:23.127-07:002012-06-25T03:30:23.127-07:00Thanks!Thanks!agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-87302942026150166762012-06-25T03:30:01.556-07:002012-06-25T03:30:01.556-07:00You are extremely kind and supportive...thank you ...You are extremely kind and supportive...thank you for that!!agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-21975451942333716442012-06-25T03:29:16.809-07:002012-06-25T03:29:16.809-07:00Thanks for the comment. Those are all good respon...Thanks for the comment. Those are all good responses, but not for my daughter. If I would have said because I want you to be safe, she would have immediately thought she wasn't safe. Her response would have been a panicky "Is there a bad guy." " Oh what's wrong."<br /><br />I tell her I want her to be and I am there to protect her, but at home in discussions where she clearly knows there isn't a threat and we are just talking or reinforcing the idea and even then I sometimes get a negative reaction. <br /><br />I appreciate the input. Always nice to have others perspective.agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-75126880782239087062012-06-24T12:18:50.230-07:002012-06-24T12:18:50.230-07:00- Why?
Me- I would just feel better.
? it woul...- Why?<br /><br />Me- I would just feel better.<br />? it would be more safe if we are together<br /><br />E- Is it because you don't want the bad guy to get me?<br /> YES I am here to keep you safe!!!<br />the way we say things can also help to encourage;0)<br />Keep up the good work<br />HisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-39409085974374791142012-06-23T20:32:52.535-07:002012-06-23T20:32:52.535-07:00I am so happy to hear that your daughter is doing ...I am so happy to hear that your daughter is doing so well. It is a testament to you and how you have handled this challenge. If she's doing better it is directly related to how you are dealing with it. You are wise to let the guilt go. You deserve none and in realizing that you have given your daughter the clearest signal possible that she can let go of her fears. If we beat ourselves up for past mistakes our children pick up on that and won't be able to let go of things themselves. <br /><br />From what I've read about and from you, you are a good mother. Never doubt that. We can't always choose whether or not we'll become a crime victim but we can choose how we respond to it if we do. Hero is a word that's sometimes used to excess but in my book that title belongs to you.Sixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05572583408046642437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-66845231162679419132012-06-23T14:02:32.977-07:002012-06-23T14:02:32.977-07:00I commend you for your strength, If i was in that ...I commend you for your strength, If i was in that situation I would gun up too. Hope things get better every day for you and E.Tylerhttp://americansfor2ndamendment.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-22559857918931747922012-06-22T14:19:03.481-07:002012-06-22T14:19:03.481-07:00Kids are a lot tougher than we give them credit fo...Kids are a lot tougher than we give them credit for. She'll put it behind her.<br /><br />(Posted at 0525? I expect my call at 0600)MSgt Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00035771485514432736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-47709164994005025292012-06-22T13:02:20.137-07:002012-06-22T13:02:20.137-07:00Thank you Sandy.Thank you Sandy.agirlandhergunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08369419666474343639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1577008135895208329.post-43752842856576255142012-06-22T06:35:51.950-07:002012-06-22T06:35:51.950-07:00I commend you as a Mother for handling the situati...I commend you as a Mother for handling the situation the way you did with your daughter. As you described in your post "E" is much better now and can talk openly to you. This is what you want, a child that sleeps better and opens up freely. She's healing wonderfully and probably a more aleart child too.<br />Thank you for sharing this conversation between you and "E" on your blog.Sandy Livesayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183449816586125720noreply@blogger.com